Wednesday, August 21, 2013

The New Guy

The transition to a new job is always going to be challenging. Coming from a part-time job in retail to a full-time job in nonprofits signaled huge warning signs for me growing up in this world. Naturally, I was a bit nervous entering the new field. I recently graduated, so making a name for myself and finding a job was my number one priority.

When researching the position before and after I accepted the job, I noticed that I was the only male working in the office. I was a recent grad with youth on my side, so I entered the office with an arrogant swagger. I was quickly humbled into my position. The Lubbock CASA office was so generous welcoming “the new guy” with a welcome brunch, fresh picked zucchini, and tales of the pranks newbies receive.  I quickly learned that this atmosphere was different from any other. The ladies in the CASA office did more than enough to welcome me into their crew calling me their new frontman. However, the ladies did not give me a free pass joining their team. I endured my fair share of pestering, questioning, and, of course, my intense social media background check.  After being knocked off my high horse and regaining my footing, I realized I had plenty to learn about this new environment. Bridal showers? Birthday brunch? I have never “brunched” nor “showered.” (By “showered” I mean a party hosted by friends). The friendly, cohesive work setting these women have put in place is impeccable and I look forward to learning their lingo, gaining new friendships, and making a difference in the Lubbock community.